I am looking for some advice on this one please. Basically my DS?s father was separated from his wife when we got together properly(we had been friends for about 5 years)and after about a year I fell pregnant. Turned out he had moved back in with his wife and was not on the contracting jobs he had told me were keeping him away for a few weeks at a time . Wife is non the wiser about his antics and I now have a 2 year old whose paternal grandparents are also oblivious to his existence. Ex has nothing to do with us now and has even relocated overseas to avoid the CSA!!
I want to go and meet them face to face but there is split opinion between my family. Some think I should write and leave it in his parent?s court whether they want involvement with my DS.
Please can you all leave your suggestions ? I do want to deal with this as sensitively as possible but fear that if they get a letter, they will ring DS?s father who will deny being dad (as he has to CSA) and then I will never get to talk to them anyway.
What would you all do?
Use our Single Parent forum to speak to other parents raising a child alone.
Contacting ex’s parents?
GLC · 15/08/2008 16:25
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