HI. I'm not sure if any of you will remember but I posted recently about attendinng daughter's events with my exh. I found all your advice really helpful, im particular Anna's who pointed out that if I were truly happy in my life then I shouldn't really mind attending with my ex. Well that comment hit home and I managed sports day and open evening at school without any problems. I even managed to be friendly to him and lend him my camera etc. Well done me!!
Tonight we attended an event where daughter got presented with a medal by the mayor. He borrowed a camera this time!
As we were leaving we bumped into 'friends' that neither of us had seen for ages. The Dad amongst other things asked my ex if we were still in the same house. Ex answered the we are now divorced and he lives somewhere else.
Why has this upset me? He just seemed so matter of fact and kind of proud of the fact that we are divorced. ( daughter also a bit upset tonight as she heard him tell)
I know he was in an awkward postion etc and I am sorry Anna but I am happy. Why has this upset me?