the day has arrived, ex dh gets wed tommorrow, me and dd are off to spain.

[piratecat]

It feels rather surreal.

It feels horrible.

Also it feels a bit of 'like I couldn't give shit', which is progess isn't it?

I have to see my ex inlaws when we return, dutybound, as they only see their granddaughter once a yr.

He never turned up to see dd when he was suppose too last week, so I will remember that nugget, if i get sad.

see youwhen i get back ladies. altho my mother has a pc.!!

hi lapin, thanks!! did you read my bit about devon? Do you hoilday here?

have replied.

ohh and apparently its gale force winds and showers tomorrow in south devon.

ha feckin ha

do you mean the wedding is in Spain, or you aren't going to the wedding?

wedding is here, I am off to see mum in spain with dd, who hasn't been included in the wedding, since the breakdonw over the last yr of her relationship with her dad.

he's been sulking.

the worst bit is ther will be another mrs pirate, weird.

poor dd
hope you had a nice time

she is upset about the whole deal, but is looking forward to going on hols.

This is the worst that can happen, except if they have a baby. Then nothing he does can really hurt you again. He'll have done it all, and you will have survived. Try not to dwell on it too much. Go have a fab holiday, making memories with your daughter.

littlewoman, i think if they had a baby it could be the end of it!!! He would do a runner eventually, like he did to me.

he has said that having dd was prob not a good idea, looking back!!

his gf did get pg, 6 months after they met but had a termination. her reasons were that she wouldnot wish to keep it if they split up, and that it didn't seem right as he was still married to me.

she also was pg with another man's baby at the start of that year (just before she met dh) but miscarried., and has two children by two other men.

anyway, i just don't think, and do hope that another baby isn't in the pipeline so to speak!!!

Selfish arse! Men and women are two a penny, children are precious, so they've got their priorities wrong.

Pmsl about the weather forecast. No, I don't know this lady so have no reason to wish her rain on her wedding, but in the spirit of supporting a fellow MNer, I'm happy on your behalf PC. Now go have a great holiday, get a beautiful tan, and remember who's got the most precious thing from your relationship. It's not the new MrsPC, it's you, because you got to keep your beautiful daughter. ((())) Sorry about girly hug!

The sun shines on the righteous - you remember that!!

here is a thought

I just chose one of my angel cards and it was

POWER!!

You are reminded that your essence is divine, so let noone diminish you.

When you feel totaly serene and at peace, you are powerful, for noone can influence you or upset you.
Your angel guidance is to find your still, quiet centre, then heal your anger, purify your emotions, rely on your own judgement and take your own decisions.

It serves your spiritual growth to take responsibility for your life, so stand on your own feet and be strong.

True power is based on inner strength, self worth and confidence.

Claim your power today.

nuff said I say!

Have a fab holiday. Don't forget the sunscream, you'll need lots!

urm that should have been suncream!

just to say, it has been 32 degrees in the shade today.

now that's just silly!

hope you are having a fab time .....

I know how you feel we have spoken about it before.....

It is only one day and it will soon pass....- although think it may have passed allready..

hi choc, yes it was two weeks ago now. have spoken to you again on here since.

"his gf did get pg, 6 months after they met but had a termination. her reasons were that she wouldnot wish to keep it if they split up, and that it didn't seem right as he was still married to me.

she also was pg with another man's baby at the start of that year (just before she met dh) but miscarried., and has two children by two other men."

so it was right for her to go out with married man in the first instance but to get pg adn then not want innocent child? silly woman.

phew i can say hi now!!! pc am glad you can say that, it is just mixed feelings tho i am for your dd, but she will have a lovely time i spain with her mom and nan ((((((((((((((((((pc and little pc)))))))))))))))))

hi fransmom, we had a lovely time.

now ex dh is married, i feel fine. the build up was worse, but now everything is back t normal, and it hasn't really made me uber upset.

I just think of the pair of them with such little respect that i find their idea of a loving relationship laughable, as they are both so anally up their own ....um anuses. if there were such a word!!

I have nothing but contempt for them. I also really dont care, and it's taken me such a long time to get to saying that.

brill! i am glad you had a lovely holiday

you will know you are finally there when you do think of them in passing, you don't feel anything, not even a glimmer of irritation.

good for you pc xxx

Piratecat, I feel for you. Have been there, although a long time ago now.

Trouble is, my exdh was forced into a vasectomy as she doesn't want children!!!

Maybe that's why she's just a nasty bitch all round?

Sorry for hijack really, but pleased you has a great time. How are you feeling now hun?

i am ok thanks. Just a bit down, all round. Prob the build up to al of it, and this is the come down.

weather is making me feel down, but as my other thread shows i am having a fancy of someone atm so thats rather nice!!

(((((((((((pc)))))))))))))