Just here to rant and see if anyone else can relate - ExH pays the bare minimum, despite being very well off. I can’t be arsed to fight it so just crack on. Additional expenses I make him pay half. Son has been selected to attend a ski trip next year - not cheap, agreed to go halves. Reminded him we need to pay the next block of instalments by 28/02. Reminded him again yesterday there’s was just one day left to pay - resigned myself to the fact I’d foot the bill.. he replied yesterday saying he’d sort it first this morning. Guess what - not done! So I called earlier to remind him again (he likes me asking for money as he’s a complete control freak) his answer.. the days not over yet. I said why bother saying you’d do it first thing if you didn’t intend to! Honestly the man sends me round the fricking bend. I wish I could just say sod it - and block him out of our lives. He won’t go away sadly, he’s hanging onto the tiniest control wherever he can.. does anyone else have this issue? It’s just infuriating. I was having a good day - he’s changed that just by being so difficult. I try my best to ignore him but sometimes trying to co-parent with him is like banging your head against the brick wall.