Ex is a compulsive lying drug user. DD is one year old. Ex has never had DD unsupervised, just visited at my house. recently he stopped turning up to visits, lost his job and along with some other suspicious behaviour i suspected drug use again and has now disappeared for weeks since i asked him to do a drug test. This was his last chance so he wont be seeing DD again now unless he takes me to court as ive been dealing with his unstable behaviour, repeated drug use and lies since before she was born and hes obviously not going to change any time soon.
Ive recently been contacted by his parents. They live 4 hours away so only see DD every 3 months or so. They were wondering why hes stopped sending them photos of her but apparently he refused to tell them what was going on. Ive told them the situation and sent them some photos but im not sure what to do going forward. They will definitely be sending all the photos to ex and telling him everything i say and in the past his mother kept making comments all the time that i should let him take her unsupervised, i had actually stopped talking to her because i got sick of it. They are very enabling to him. Theyre also jehovas witnesses and tend to preach a lot which is annoying. I feel kindof bad though to totally cut them off