Just looking for advice from anyone who has been through the system, my ex is a company director and I think his wife may be as well (in name only, he is very highly qualified and she isn’t, if they are doing this, it will be for tax reasons).
CMS tell me he only earns about 12 K per annum which is the directors minimum, most company directors would then also draw dividends. He has never declared any to CMS. despite being fabulously wealthy (massive house in London, new car, always off on nice holidays et cetera ) pays me a low amount of maintenance for our son, although it is more than CMS tell him to pay.
I suspect the reason he does this is because it will make me anxious about querying it in case I get it wrong, in which case he will drop down to the absolute minimum. If this is the case it has worked, he was financial abusive in our relationship and I am scared to rock the boat. I am also dealing with serious health issues at the moment and teen son has SEN and needs a lot from me.
however, because of my health we are living hand to mouth at the moment, and if he owes my son more money, I think we should get it. Am I right that maintenance runs until our son leaves full-time education, and that if ex has been hiding income or not taking dividends he is entitled to as a way of hiding income then I could potentially flag this with them, for example 3 months before maintenance is due to stop, and then if they find in my favour that he would be told to pay backdated maintenance? I know the system doesn’t work well, but I do think if they told him to pay it, he probably would.
my thought is that if I wait until relatively close to, when maintenance is going to stop anyway, if I have got this wrong, my ex wont be able to punitively withold these “extra” pounds he gives us for more than a few months, but if I’m right, there will still be time for CMS to tell him that he owes me backdated payments.
also, is there any other professional body I could get involved to help me with this, I don’t think it’s something you can involve a solicitor with?