Hello MN community,
Will try & keep this short.
Abusive ex has been an inconsistent addition to my son’s life for the last 10 years. We separated when son was 3 years old, I left with son, it has been a difficult 10 years as a single mum, I have tried to do the best I can & have disabilities.
Son is in Y9, got in with a new group of pals in Y8, less focussed at school now but very good at sport & art. Excelling in fact.
He’s had a couple of negatives in his last report & has had a few detentions in the last year or so for late homework/being late in (buses are late sometimes) but nothing major & he is a good kid (helps our elderly neighbour/loves cooking etc)
Last month, his dad has been told about the detentions & negative stuff & is now demanding to meet with the headteacher/to have access to the school’s weekly updates for my son.
My ex has NEVER GIVEN A SHIT about son’s grades/reports etc before & has never even been to a single parents evening (primary & secondary)
He is definitely only wanting access to all this so he can criticize me/my son & focus on the negative stuff & ‘parent’ from a distance when it suits him.
I don’t think his details are registered on son’s school record - can he access all of this without my consent?
He has PR.