For background, my Ex has meantal health difficulties that have lead to some unacceptable behaviour towards the DC in the past. Despite this we have agreed that keeping some form of relationship going between him and DC is in their best intrest. We have been working through an agreed plan to gradually increase the amount of time they spend with him (currently supervised by family), whilst he accesses meantal health suport and works on his parenting issues.
He sees them twice a month and this weekend he would be due to increase from 2h to 4-6h with them. He has asked to see them for 3h and ask that they bring their tablets. Not sure how I feel about this.
Firstly, when you see your kids that little, would you not want to have all the time you can with them? And also wouldn't you want to actually interact with them instead of sitting them in front of a screen? (DC definitely not screen free at home, but generally use them for car journeys or dr waiting room type situation). I also don't like having to send things along for contact, and have raised this previously when asked for packed lunches, attraction passes, sun cream, swim kit etc.
Do you think I should raise either of these, or just let him get on with it?