So me and my ex share a nearly 5 year old daughter. He is pretty disrespectful towards me, in that he won't stick to any arranged days to have our daughter. He frequently leaves for weeks, up to a month at a time for work/holidays then comes back and has her for a few days and doesn't consider the impact this has on our daughter and me. He's argued about paying child maintenance, apparently i don't deserve any help financially..
I work hard at my two jobs, and he doesn't care If I can arrange childcare or not. I have to accept what he says and when it happens,, i have to bend to fit in whatever he wants or he tells people im keeping his daughter from him. Obviously I don't want our daughter to not see her dad, so I allow it. But I feel like a real pushover. Hes turned my friends against me and keeps accusing me or beibg all the things he is!! He says im jealous of him.. I'm not. He says all our friends are against me.. I don't think that they are. Its crazy! I'm in no way jealous of him, infact glad to be rid of him!
He doesn't seem to have any empathy and now he is so rude and disrespectful towards me. Yet I do atleast 75% of the parenting whilst he swans around doing as he pleases. He often won't give me dates for when he's leaving or coming back. So I know nothing. He's difficult over everything, and I feel like it's a punishment towards me. Like he wants to me to suffer.. but really his daughter is suffering more than I am. Though it does make me feel stressed and sad. He lives his life however he wants and I can't plan anything alone. Now he's got a new girlfriend of a few months, he's moving in with her. Now he's even worse of a parent than before. Apparently his girlfriend had a sore throat so our daughter couldn't go to their house.. like my god.. a sore throat!!! She has no children so clearly has no idea.. gunna be non stop sore throats now its heading into winter time with a chikd at school.
He was nasty to me at home, particularly when I was pregnant. He seemed even more vicious, despite him wanting the baby.. he just seemed to despise me.
Hes also covered in tattoos, loves himself, thinks he's the best thing since sliced bread, to the point where I'm apparently jealous of him.. which I'm not. Completely delusional. Does this sound like a narcissist?