Can you all come and tell me what you reckon XP is playing at?

[charliecat]

Earlier tonight I was having a laugh with the kids....tickling, ripping the piss, just having a right loud laugh with them. Had two extra kids in, we were all really laughing. XP, I am without a doubt sure about this, rang his girlfriend so she could hear..???!!!!! She then rang back saying did you just ring me, where are you?
And he said No I didnt, what makes you think that bla bla?

WTF do you reckon he is playing at?

madamez, your first post is exactly what i have said to cc on msn in hte past

Ive no doubt he did it on purpose as he was sitting very quietly, not interacting with us playing, on my bed with his phone in his hand. And there was the denial that he had done it.
He could have said oh shit yeah just fiddling with my phone didnt realise..
I think hes trying to cause issues so he doesnt have to dump her if im being honest.
Or hes just playing games to cause hassle. He certainly did that a lot when i was his GF.
She is 40 something, ive never saw him eye up anyone older than 21 which is a bit cringeworthy.

Why are you so contemptuous of her, CC? Have you ever actually met her? Or are you just accepting his unkind remarks about her at face value. I'd be inclined to feel sorry for her as she's got such a dick of a partner.

I do feel sorry for her, said that earlier. I have over the past year felt like emailing her. But havent, she will find out for herself. soon enough.
The cringeworthy comment was that he is such a creep to not fancy anything just over legal, and the fact hes my X

Having spent a lot of the weekend with XP I can confirm that I was right, he was playing games so he could get out of the relationship.
He stopped answering his phone and she rang 25 times in 2 days
I said maybe a text so that she stops worrying would be good.
He rang her got a load of verbal and she ended the relationship.
Spineless feck he is.

So, CC, are you pleased? Going to do anything about it? Because I got the feeling from your OP that you want him to want you back, even if you don't necessarily want him back, iykwim

Im not pleased at all. It doesn't effect me. The reason I posted in the first place is because I didnt know whether it was me thinking what I thought(that he was trying to get out of the relationship, which noone suggested at all) and wanted to see what others would come up with.
I do think its better for her however.

lol @ cc wanting him to want her back

i think he strying to make her jelous or try to get something out of her. as if you heard you boyfriend on phone laughing with kids(fine) and his ex/mother of his children (not so cool). ou would think wtf!!!!.

does he want you back do you think. ?

soryy missed a bit ther!!

I think he was trying to let you know that he is happy to mess her about, thus hinting to you that she doesn't matter, and hoping that you will have him back.

The same way (I'll get flamed for this no doubt) that some office sleazeballs moan about their wife then flirt with the women in the office. I always suspect thats their way of saying 'well I might have a wife but she's not up to scratch so I'm open to offers'. Bleurghghg.

He was sitting on your bed ???

I dread to think what sleazy thoughts were running through his mind.