My ex partner is so ridiculously forgetful, irresponsible and clumsy that he is genuinely a danger to our kids. To clarify he's not intentionally dangerous but there are so many examples of his carelessness leading to danger.
He's let the pram (with baby in) roll into road, moved furniture so child can climb up balcony railings, numerous dangerous driving scenarios with kids in car, seatbelts not on properly, almost injured baby by not putting crib up properly, leaves wires and sharp things around, there are dozens more.
On top of that he also never thinks of the fact they need water, food or the right level of clothing for the temperature.
As I say, there is no bad intent from him just severe lack of thought - the sort of reasons you wouldnt let a child look after babies.
In an ideal world where I think he's responsible enough I'd like co-parenting, but I just don't trust him looking after them. Wondering what likely scenario would be if I went for just visitation instead of 50/50? Note: they're 12 months and 2.5 years.