I know it's not a big deal to end a 3 month relationship but sometimes posting on Mumsnet helps me be honest with myself so...
Contemplating ending things due to what might be conflict in the future and some 'ick's" and his current living situation (which is probably enough)
But anyway
Conflicts: he's been a step father before and has two children. When he talks about his step child I think, I don't want you talking to my child like that.
It wasn't even anything bad but EVERY story consists of him and his ex (mother of all 3 children) having differing opinions. Him wanting things done a certain way and her being 'soft' red flag number 1
Ick's being annoying on purpose to be 'cute' tbf I have not told him I hate it, but from previous experience when you tell them they're being annoying (which they know they are and are doing it in that horrible boys poking girls way) you get sighs like 'you're no fun' or worse they smile and say 'I know, it because you're cute when your annoyed or I know I'm bored' it is such a big ick! It's happened before so I do not react AT ALL he does tiny pinches of my thigh trousers doesn't hurt at all but very annoying
There are a few other ick's but that's the main one
The other issue is his living arrangements, he lives in a shared house (own room and bathroom) as he's separating from his ex (married) he is also waiting for settled status
There are a lot of things I like about him but I've been abroad and I'm not desperate to see him (we have met up once) he definitely feels strongly in his feelings to me.
I don't want to overthink but I do not want to end up with an annoying cock lodger who tries to discipline my child.
I wouldn't let it get to that stage but I could see him trying for that in the future.