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oh f**kity f**k

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whatthehellnext · 10/04/2008 11:18

namechanged as i don't know who's lurking.
have no idea what to do, xp has told me someone who caused me a lot of grief is looking to rent where i live. i'm sorry i can't go into things as i don't want to give myself away. suffice to say is that she casued a lot of problems and was one of the main reasons i left him.
help xxx

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whatthehellnext · 10/04/2008 11:18
Sad
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captainmummy · 10/04/2008 11:20

What do you want to do? It's a bit hard to give advice, as you haven't really given us much to go on!
Maybe you could move?

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whatthehellnext · 10/04/2008 11:20

anyone?

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whatthehellnext · 10/04/2008 11:21

she knows where i live, why should i have to move when my dd is happy there now i have left her dad?

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Freckle · 10/04/2008 11:22

Looking to rent and actually finding somewhere are two different things. I'd avoid stressing about it until it actually happens.

elesbells · 10/04/2008 11:24

How close to you are we talking?

I would have thought if she wanted to cause you any more trouble, she could have already if she knows where you live.

Agree with freckle, wait and see.

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whatthehellnext · 10/04/2008 11:26

have had loads of stress her son i think lives down the road a little (same street), this town is big enough for her not to live in same street, the landlords has another property in the next block so now can you understand why i changed name?

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whatthehellnext · 10/04/2008 11:28

am now thinking of phoning landlord agent to check obv he can't tell me the address but i don't want to live in the next block.
have wanted to move for ages but not like this

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whatthehellnext · 10/04/2008 11:36

have to go but please continue to leave advice. i just want to know oh i don't know what but i don't want to have to live next door to her

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littlewoman · 10/04/2008 14:37

Presumably your xp knows this woman. Can he not have a word with her about her intentions?

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whatthehellnext · 11/04/2008 11:49

he does but says he doesn't want anything to do with her.

i phoned the landlord and they have known the situation for ages as i have been living there for nearly 5years and they said they wo uld let me know if she was moving into the same street but obv not the number which i wouldn't want to know anyway

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littlewoman · 11/04/2008 11:59

I hate it when things like this hang over your head, but if the landlord is aware of it, they will surely have the nous not to put her too close to you, I would think.

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whatthehellnext · 13/04/2008 15:43

that is what i should have added on the end of the last post

i don't care where she lives as long as its not the same street. thereis howvere, obv, other proeprties to rent from different landlords in which case there would be very little i could do. oh well. have been looking half-heartedly for a new house for me and dd anyway, but i not quite ready yet. plus, she seems more bothered anyway i just pretend not to recognise her

thanks for all your help xxx

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