Moving to Abu Dhabi

[Joyeuse333]

Hi there. We are planning to move to Abu Dhabi this Summer. My husband and I are separated but are amicable. However that can change so i would like some advice on what legal documents I needed before i leave Uk. My son is 12 and is way too excited that i cant even refuse to go. He was born in Dubai and loves the ME. His dad's company is paying for everything including school , our separate accommodations etc. He has a golden visa which apparently is helpful for when I want to find a job. My most fear is having the power to decide on when to leave the country etc. When I lived in Dubai years ago I remember that mothers needed a permission letter from the father to exit the country with a child. I know I can always seek for legal assistance but firstly I appreciate very much your experience, information and advice.

Oh dear, you're going to be in for a surprise for the lack of rights you'll have.

No wonder your ex wants to move there - so he can get all the power.

Seems a stupid move in a failed relationship.

If you're tied to him for everything, presumably he could divorce you and end your visa entitlement? I live in the region, but in my own right. I wouldn't want to be dependent on a man for the security of my residency.

You need to seek independent legal advice with regard to your son.

You would be mad to consider this. No way would I sign away my rights like this.

As a married woman, you will be committing a crime if you have a relationship.

If you are raped, you may be charged with adultery.

Your ex may decide he wants custody of your son and you wouldn't be able to do much about it.

You might be miserable and want to go home, but be unable to leave.

It's a crazy idea IMO.

Hi there,

I lived in Abu Dhabi for 7 years - returning to the UK around 2 years ago. The rules have changed a lot in recent years. If I were you I would ask in the Abu Dhabi Q&A (by Freya) Facebook group. There are a lot of lawyers in the group who would be able to give you accurate and relevant advice.

I hope that helps.

Why on earth would you even be thinking that this is a good idea?

P.S. I was never asked for an exit letter when I travelled alone with my children.

Why on earth are you moving with a STBXH? that's just bizarre.