Social services

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So I recently been in hospital from a domestic violence incident the social services came out which I understand to see my kids we have had a bad experience with them before a. D they got sacked the social care said if I don't have him back they will close a few days later I had a letter saying there staying open for my oldest not the younger 2 and they was from childrens disability to then get a phone call saying there putting all 3kids on a child in need plan so with in the week they have already lied to me there bringing up my daughter mental health who he social care said in the past they can't do anything but she 18 andy other 2they keep saying are they safe my ex is locked up and will be for a. Long time Iam working with women aid and so is my daughter as he hit her the other 2are fine they said if we don't agree to a child in need plan they will put us on child protection so today I had a text from my middle child youth worker and said social care had a meeting with school and me myself and my sons worker was not invited which I didn't think they could do

Sorry to hear you have been hospitalised by your 'partner'.

Your OP was extremely hard to read without any punctuation however from what I can gather, the partner is now in jail and will be for some time? Use this as your means of escape. Remove him from your life completely and do all that the social workers ask of you. I would agree to the CIN plan and hopefully the social workers will see that you are doing everything you can to protect your children.

I hope you recover soon.

OP. Take a deep breath.
Social Services have a job to do. They are trying to make sure your kids are safe and in a stable environment. I’m very sorry you had a bad experience with them before. But it will really help you to reframe the situation. Social workers are not there to lie to parents and to try and trick you. That is not their job. They have criteria to follow to assess situations in families and actions to take when different criteria are met or not met. They are not allowed to just make it up as they go along.
When you meet with social services, try to put the thought that they are out to get you to the back of your mind and focus on what they are telling you about your family’s situation and changes they want to see. They will have a checklist. You need to figure out what boxes your family’s situation does not currently check for the kids to be considered safe and they try to fix those things.