Hi, just looking for some advice, I left my daughters father when she was around 3 months old. I suffered after having her, and he wasn’t a support he emotionally abused me quite often and I become really unhappy. Since I left I’ve always tried to encourage a relationship but he won’t have her, if he has her it’s for around an hour and I have to take her and pick her up as he doesn’t have anything. He threatens me when it comes to her, saying she’ll realise for herself one day and that he’ll take her from me, it breaks my heart I’m the one who’s cared for her and he gives me nothing but abuse majority of days. I’ve had enough of dealing with this, I feel lost in what to do. He recently has started speaking to new people which is fine, but apparently they’re going to be her new mummy. How much am I supposed to put up with? Why am I the one encouraging the relationship and he gives nothing back? But thinks when he gets someone new, he’ll be having her more. Where do I go from here? I’ve suggested mediation/court but to him it’s not worth it he said, should I just do it anyway? There’s so much that’s gone on, but I just can’t cope with it all anymore. Any advice would be appreciated