Hi,I split with h late last year-his refusal to collect dd from cm after he moved out led to me leaving my job-was juggling childcare as it was.
We have sold the house(fingers crossed these ones won't pull out)as there's no way I can keep running it.
The idea was to clear our debts and split what's left and for me to use the money to rent somewhere privately for me,ds and dd to live.
At the moment I don't get any benefits(except 25%reduction for council tax)as my ex is keeping mortgage and utilities going till sale goes through-temp arrangement as he's living at his mum's.I am putting food shopping on credit card which will be paid off after house sale-as I have no wage.
I had been feeling quite optimistic (well,you need to don't you?)about getting a new job sorted soon and managing to get by-am doing an evening course to help with my qualifcations in Sep-thanks to my Mum babysitting once a week.
So far no joy with jobs.
Today, my friend told me that when I do work, I won't get any help with my rent costs after I've used up the house money - I will only get help if I'm out of work.
I thought that I'd be eligible for help if on a low income and I'm not going to be renting out a mansion-just something for me and the dcs that's easy to care for.
I'm feeling quite down now-have a meeting at council housing place tomorrow-although I know I have no chance of a council place,I wanted to know what my options are -if any.
Does anyone know how housing benefits work?am really confused and looking for a glimmer of hope-and a wink of sleep without worrying.