He even sugested that I come out for a coffee with him and dd5 (becuase dd5 didn't want to go alonewith him0. I agreed, for dd's sake. It was very weird, being in public with him and dd, as a family, the first time in 3 yrs.
DD was very pleased tho, and said her empty space (inside her heart) was now full up!!
BUT, ok, it was a start, and I wouldn't have ever suggested it myself as Ihave been put in my lace too many times, but it was a move in the direction.
So today is easter, and has he followed this through? Nope, no card, no egg for dd5, and she is pretty upset and let down once again.
I am so torn wanting to call him and have a go, which I won't do, but once again, and i SHOULD have expected it, dd is let down.
I truly thought, last weekend was a breakthrough of him realising he has to comeup with ideas, and efort to see dd and gether trust.
She trusted him enough to see him, and guided by me went out for a coke, but now she's miserable again.
Oh, and the weing problem started back uo this week too, after almost a week of dry, after she'd seen him.
She is still suffering, and even pooed herself 2 days ago. I knew i would have to see this thru, the eventuality that he wouldn't keep this going proplerly, but its hard to see dd upset once again.