Hoping for some good advise from people that have been through the same.
Ex left for an old flame. Since he left year ago he has been saying he made a mistake and wants to come back. I have given him the option to come back but he hasn't taken it saying he needs to sort his head out. Still living with the OW, still saying he wants his family back. He is not a great dad, sees DC one or twice a week for few hours. He wasn't a great partner either. How do I let go? I have done therapy, read self help books and still cannot go of resentment that he is free to do what he wants and messing me around while my life is limited due to having DC majority of the time plus all the pets! I don't know how to cut off. Still miss him even though we were terrible together. How do people stop feeling like that ? Any sound advise? I cannot continue like this anymore.