Hi all, this is my first post and I’m looking for a bit of advice. I left my ex whilst I was pregnant due to him domestically abusing me. My daughter is now 6, and for the last 7 years he’s controlled everything, including how much he wanted to pay in child maintenance. He’s only ever had our daughter on alternate weekends (his choice) and I had to put a stop to her going to his unsupervised, because he was putting her at risk, neglecting her and I had concerns about him abusing her too. He decided that he no longer wanted contact with her at all, not even phone calls. After that, I decided to apply for child maintenance through CMS, but he wasn’t working at the time so was only ordered to pay £30 a month. He missed his first payment, so I asked for CMS to use collect and pay, a week later he applied to the court for 50/50 child arrangements (3 months since his last contact with her) I’ve since found out that he did this not long after getting a new job and he’s going to have to pay me hundreds due to his earnings, arrears and because he doesn’t have her at all.
I understand that I have no proof that he’s only applying due to not wanting to pay, but has anyone experienced anything like this?
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Mermaidtearss · 22/01/2024 20:02
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