My narc ex and his girlfriend have said they will not see the children EOW if they insist on bringing their phones. This is apparently because I interfere. My daughter called me once when at their house because she felt unhappy about going to the forest. She’s 15, just a typical teen. They don’t want her or her brothers to call me. Even if they want to. I never call them. Now my daughter is saying she won’t go without her phone, she ikes to chat to her friends. I think she should be allowed this outlet as the sibling of two brothers with SEN
I feel very uneasy about this. He hasn’t made a request, he has ordered me to not send them with phones. The two boys are autistic, they cope better with the transition if they have their phones. Also there has been no contact for months unless at my house which I can no longer tolerate. They barely know his gf, have been to their flat once.
social workers( involved with my sons) are aware of him and the situation, and agree with me.
I don’t know what I’m asking. But I’ve pretty much come to a decision that this is not in their best interests. I’ve tried to facilitate a relationship between the children and their father, even though he uses contact to control me. I’m tired and stressed. Fed up of him and his gf. I feel like just stopping contact over this. There is not CAO in place.