Any help DESPERATELY needed
my partner has a beautiful little boy with his ex girlfriend whom I’d like to say I’ve gone in open minded despite her telling him to kill himself a year before and him ending up in critical care and also cheating on him multiple times whilst controlling his finances. ive accommodated her every request and even done my fair share of buying new clothes & toys to keep at her home and also paying out of my own money not my partners for her birthday party plans or anything the little one needed. I was theee for her support and to confide in and feel safe the whole time I felt like she wanted me to break up with him making up lies he’s cheating on me, getting people to message me calling me fat, ugly upon other things, accessing my medical records to publicise my pregnancy and even to the facts of telling me she wants to beat me up all because my partner doesn’t communicate with her call her everyday or message her and it isn’t about the little one she’s started turning up to his work and just popping in to see him which he’s asked her not too it’s been reported to the police but it’s getting worse she’s got the little one calling my partner ‘dad.’ Or his real name now and his step dad ‘dada.’ Or ‘daddy.’ As she states this is because he fills a better role then LO real dad which is very hurtful, but she keeps pushing up even stopped sending LO with a bag of clean clothes to return home in now we have to provide everything clothes to come in and go home in and for next week else we cannot have him ontop of that if we request things we bought like the tablet etc she says no to us and if we book things like events and she’s aware she’s started withholding the child and spreading lies about us via social media. We’ve resulted to a co parent app where she doesn’t have the number so she can’t send nasty messages and delete them and call all times of the day for abuse but this isn’t stopping her she’s finding other ways my partner doesn’t want contact but doesn’t want to not see LO please can someone help us the authorities have mentioned court but he’s worried about it and it’s outcome as she said she’s going to change LO surname aswell.