Ex now wants to be involved

[Millermillermiller232323]

Hello

a few years ago I was seeing someone and fell pregnant, he stated get rid and have a termination. I kept baby and he’s now 2.

I never told ex anything about baby as he was not interested and kept accusing of sleeping with others.

he has seen pictures of son on wassap and said son looks like his 15 year old daughter.

it seems he is now wanting to know him

im not sure what to do as he was absent including pregnancy for 3 years.

I don’t want to withhold child from seeing him but it’s at a cost.

what if he applies for custody?

I have been single parent for all this time

family are a bit against him being involved at this stage, maybe because of what ex put me through

It's not my business what my ex does now but I am a big advocate for Claire's law.

It's there for a reason.

If you have it in black and white and ignore it, sorry but that's crazy behaviour.

I lost a lot of family and friends trying to prove everyone wrong and it took a long time to rebuild all those relationships.

If you've been told things from Claire's law I would be careful.
Ignoring that and inviting someone you know is abusive into your lives won't be seen as protecting your child by the authorities.
Keeping your wee one and yourself safe is number one priority/

It's shit having kids with these people, no judgement from me. Take care !