3 sodding years

[PurpleOne]

and I proposed, and he's said no

We are in LDR and always have been.

He made so many promises and now all I want to do is sit here and cry.

3 wasted years.

I told him I had kids straight off the bat, now he don't want it.
I worked sex lines and text lines to pay for another trip out there with my kids.
He met my kids, told me he loved me...now I just feel so stupid and such a twat.

No responses necessary, just wanted to offload x x

Oh PurpleOne I'm so sorry. Just couldn't pass on by without saying I can imagine how you're feeling. I was abandonned by my H and my boys father - he's off to pastures new. Cry, scream, but don't bottle it in. And above all, remember you're worth so very very much more.

What does LDR mean, get a trip out where?

How many times did he meet your kids?

Aw babes is it all over or just no to the proposal?

ldr is a long distance relationship

he met my kids and i met his family.

id also like to add that i'm on benefits and it took me ages to save up to get out there to see him.

can't belive he siad no, after all those promises, really can't believe it

Ah LDR are so hard, difficult to coverse with out seeing each other face to face.

Did you propose over the phone then?

the bastard lives in LA and I live in London.
I think it's all over, considering he filled my head full of shit for 3 years..empty fucking promises. It just don't mean shit...

and he don't have to pick up the fucking peices when I had to tell my kids either. My DD2 doted on him and is in tears.

He promised her he would see her again....bastard

awww purpleone after 3 years you are entitled to go forwared with your relationship, at least its come out now sooner rather than later so you are still young enough to find someone who wants the same things in life as you, its extra awful when kids dote on someone and I hope that they get over him, although if he keeps coming over then its probably going to be harder on then so you are probably better cutting all contact.

It is best to avoid long distance relationships. Very few of them work out because it is not real, IYSWIM. Men that seek these LDR relationships don't want a real relationship 24/7. I'm not judging because I've done it myself, more than once. Sorry.