My kid has the least fun with me

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My kid definitely has the least fun with me. I’m depleted and overwhelmed. Sole provider w I consistent visits from her dad. I do everything for and with her. But I watch her have a good time with everyone else. Even though I plan amazing days out or play dates and activities I’m so overstretched and exhausted that I’m either dragging myself through, or I end up snapping at her over something. I asked her today if mummy makes her happy (she was talking about things and people make he happy) and she said no. I’m so scared of her hating me. I’m trying so hard.

I wouldn't overthink the comment.
Maybe she was thinking of things (physical stuff or experiences) that make her happy. For example, if someone gave her tickets to something or a present of something she may feel really happy. If you walk into her room she wouldn't jump for joy in the same way.
It doesn't mean you don't make her happy.
I'm probably not explaining what I mean very well.

She has consistent visits from her dad, so that should give enough time to plan things ahead (headspace) for when she gets here.You are just over thinking, my son went swimming lessons and we then went soft play after. When it was time to leave he said "mummy is boring". That's kids for you nothing is ever good enough for them lol

How old is she?

Unfortunately when you're the main carer in their lives you are the one that does all the mundane stuff like any discipline, making them go to school, saying no when needed etc.

You might not be fun all the time but she needs you - even if she doesn't know it.

Thank you! Although that’s a typo - inconsistent. He’s sporadic. It’s so helpful to hear your experience. Thank you

She’s about to be 3. She’s very articulate though, can communicate emotions clearly.