My ex split up with me the week after I found out I was pregnant . I tired to make it work , he said he wanted to, but in reality he was not very nice to me at all .
He has two other kids . I have asked him to do things for our child such as take him for a glasses appointment when I was at work ,but he said he needed to spend time with his children instead because they are off on holiday( kids could have gone too ) . He then blamed me for causing conflict .
He says he doesn’t see his child much because I ruined the relationship. He has only just started paying maintenance as I claimed.
He overtly chooses his other children but says I cause the divide ( not true , I got on with and always wanted to be part of their family).
My brain will not accept this is it and I am on my own . I can't fathom he is not as bothered about my child . Any tips to cope with this ? I’m struggling with the fact his kids get his full attention and ours doesn’t get much at all . He only wants to see my child when his other family are around as the coo over him as he is cute / a baby .