Hi everyone I needed some advice if any you want to reply I would really appreciate it. I was in a relationship with a verbally abusive guy, he called me the worst names and threatened me. I went no contact with him when I was five months pregnant because I didn’t want to be treated like that anymore. I kept in contact with his mother because I didn’t think it was fair to keep his family out of the picture. He told me he doesn’t think she is his anymore about a month before I gave birth and that he didn’t want me taking to his mom anymore. I decided that I was still going to keep in contact with her. I told his mom I had her and she seemed happy. I also asked her to tell him that she was here. He said that it wasn’t fair he missed the birth IF he is the father. So what I took from that is he was still questioning if he was the father l. I asked his mom if he wanted a paternity test but she never responded. It’s been a month my baby girl is a month old now. Should I break no contact and ask him if he wants to be in her life or should i just wait until he decides what he wants to do? I would appreciate any feedback ,thank you.