Does the rollercoaster end? My partner of 15 years decided he no longer loves me and told me a few weeks ago. We told the kids (13 & 10) recently and their dad is moving out on Monday.
I've been trying to get all the admin/finance side sorted ASAP before the feelings about it consume me.
We'd agreed he'd be here for the kids ALL weekend. Ds went to athletics for 5 hours this afternoon and dd opted to come with me to return some school uniform I got in the wrong size. We were out for an hour.
Turns out their dad has now gone to "sort out" his new place at 12 noon and isn't going to be back here until 8pm. Directly against what we agreed. He's got his crap all over the dining room, a "to do" list 3 a4 pages long of stuff he needs to sort before he goes and I'm so angry that he's done this. He's left his stuff in the dining room so I don't know what it is exactly he's "sorting out" and I really feel like the "sorting out" at his new place should be done after he officially leaves here on Monday. (He's going while the kids are at school and we're transitioning straight into the agreed shared custody plan).
My paranoia and anxiety is being fueled by my heartbreak and I'm finding it all so hard to cope with.