My ex and I broke up almost 10 years ago now. 2 teenage daughters. He rarely sees them and only if I put in the effort to set it up and it won't cost him any money/will cost him very little money. They don't like seeing him as they say it's boring and they don't like his house. He would tell you I've alienated them from him, I'd just say he's never made the effort and they know that and don't like it.
Child maintenance on Direct Pay through CMS. A few years back had problems with him underpaying but he has paid in full and on time for a while now.
Just had Annual Review and payment gone up dramatically as he received over £20k in bonuses and a backdated pay rise..
He is furious, says its not fair as it doesn't reflect his current income. Threats that he will have to sell his house and rent a room somewhere, won't be able to see the girls etc. I've heard it all before and I told him.if he thinks it's wrong to query it but that if he did earn that much it's right the kids get a share. He wants me to agree to a private arrangement with a lesser amount but I won't because I don't trust him to be honest about his income.
So once again I'm being subjected to a barrage of email abuse. WIBU to block him? He has the girls numbers, he can contact them without going through me if he wanted to.