Hi, my ex is a high earner and earns over the £3k a week that the CMS can calculate on. So he pays the amount they have calculated for that, when pushed and always with moaning.
But the CMS have said they don't do calculations for the earnings over 3k, that I need to go to court for that decision.
Please does anyone have any experience of this? He was horrendous through the courts 2 years ago for our financial settlement and still trys to use money to control 😔
Thanks
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Bobo65432 · 30/05/2023 18:08
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 17:42
But she is getting what she is meant to.
YomAsalYomBasal · 31/05/2023 17:35
Why are you all so against the resident parent getting what they're meant to?
OP I went to court. It was ok, not exactly fun but worth it once it was over!
greyhairnomore · 31/05/2023 17:55
You have no idea of her costs ?
Presumably on that salary they had quite a nice life. HIS child shouldn't be made to suffer because they have split up. @Bobo65432 I'd go to court , difficult as it may be.
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 17:14
You have payments for an income of 3k a week and still want more. Unbelievable.
titchy · 31/05/2023 17:47
Why? You don't need that much money to raise a child. Why would I be bothered? The money is for the child's needs not to provide an income for life for an ex.
Because with a super-rich parent the child should be able to expect a certain standard of living if the parents were together. Or would you think it was acceptable for the father to travel first class, or used a private plane while mother and child sat in economy? That the father dressed head to toe in designer gear and child in second hand Primark?
By your token no kid needs more than two changes of clothes or toys or books so why buy them.
SheilaFentiman · 31/05/2023 17:44
err, no. CMS only covers up to £3k per week. Beyond that, the RP has to apply to the court for extra. That doesn’t mean extra won’t be deemed due, just that it’s beyond the remit of CMS
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 17:42
But she is getting what she is meant to.
YomAsalYomBasal · 31/05/2023 17:35
Why are you all so against the resident parent getting what they're meant to?
OP I went to court. It was ok, not exactly fun but worth it once it was over!
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 18:00
Yes. Mother has to travel in whatever she can afford with her own effort. Child maintenance is not to equalise the living standards. It is to pay fo the costs of the child when living with the other parent. If she wants to travel first class, she can get a job that provides for it. child can have all luxuries when he is with the father (the one earning the money.
titchy · 31/05/2023 17:47
Why? You don't need that much money to raise a child. Why would I be bothered? The money is for the child's needs not to provide an income for life for an ex.
Because with a super-rich parent the child should be able to expect a certain standard of living if the parents were together. Or would you think it was acceptable for the father to travel first class, or used a private plane while mother and child sat in economy? That the father dressed head to toe in designer gear and child in second hand Primark?
By your token no kid needs more than two changes of clothes or toys or books so why buy them.
AgnesX · 31/05/2023 17:59
Are you a CMS payer or just bitter about someone else might get?
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 17:14
You have payments for an income of 3k a week and still want more. Unbelievable.
greyhairnomore · 31/05/2023 17:55
You have no idea of her costs ?
Presumably on that salary they had quite a nice life. HIS child shouldn't be made to suffer because they have split up. @Bobo65432 I'd go to court , difficult as it may be.
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 17:14
You have payments for an income of 3k a week and still want more. Unbelievable.
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 18:11
I am. I pay for another entitled woman that refuses to work and wants a lifestyle she hasn't earned. My opinion it is all greed. No child needs more than a thousand pounds month.
AgnesX · 31/05/2023 17:59
Are you a CMS payer or just bitter about someone else might get?
taxpayer1 · 31/05/2023 17:14
You have payments for an income of 3k a week and still want more. Unbelievable.
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