Hi everyone. My partner left me when I was 8 months pregnant. I phoned him a couple of weeks later and he accused me of harassment as I had messaged his mother and sister once and him a 4 times asking him why and that I was heartbroken and could he text back. I have since had my baby and I am trying to get on with my being a good mum. He has made no contact with me except a letter from police accusing me of sending him junk mail from different companies (which is completely not true). I want my baby to grow up happy and healthy and would like advice on whether I should contact him to see if he wants to be part of the baby’s life. However I am scared that if I contact him he will see it as harressment and contact the police again. Or should I wait for him to contact me? I just don’t want my baby to accuse me of stopping any relationship with their father but don’t want to open myself up to more anxiety and stress on top of being a single parent to a newborn. Thanks!