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IronNeonClasp · 12/04/2023 22:15

I don’t think I’m selfish? I’m 49, can’t afford massive family breaks with the kids. DD coerced DS to go back to dads tonight. She’s been a nightmare last few months as well as DS and boyfriend. I had a big trip tomorrow which was sabotaged.
I am properly shattered but I’ve just booked 3 days in a hot country from tomorrow. I can’t cope anymore without any sun. It’s been absolutely pissing down here last couple of weeks. I booked a real cheap 3 nights away to recharge but as per I’m feeling guilty AF. I still intend to go no matter what any of you say but would really love to hear of any other women who have reached the end of their tether and done the same. I’ve maxed my credit btw but only as much as I can afford this year.
Thanks x

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IronNeonClasp · 12/04/2023 22:16

*A big trip planned for tomorrow

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purpleme12 · 13/04/2023 22:21

Sounds really good! Even better if it leaves you feeling recharged!

bloodywhitecat · 13/04/2023 22:25

You are still allowed to be you and do things for you even when you are a parent. Enjoy your time away.

FlickyCrumble · 13/04/2023 22:26

I think it’s a great idea. Enjoy.

Lolalovesroses · 13/04/2023 22:27

Sounds like you need the break, it'll do you good. Don't feel guilty and enjoy your time. I hope it's wonderful!

escplc · 13/04/2023 22:30

Good for you!

Parenting is exhausting. You should enjoy a guilt free three days child free.

Cheers!

IronNeonClasp · 17/04/2023 01:40

Thanks again for all the positive messages. I’m back!
It was a strange few days, felt odd, guilty and selfish quite a bit of the time but I really do feel rejuvenated.
ExH was calling midday today constantly for school uniform but turned out it was at his house fml. Ruined the little bit of the last of the ‘holiday’ I had left and reminded me how much he controls me - oh well. Such is life.
If anyone else is contemplating doing something like this I say go and get the rest-bite you need xx

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