Ex's mum never bothers. Only Christmas Easter or a birthday. She insists coming and sitting in my house. I just feel so uncomfortable. We have no contact with ex. His choice. So much abuse from him though and having to have his mum over just opens up all this anxiety. I hear from someone mutual all her judge comments like how I've decorated and just little things about me. She's the type to smile at your face then bitch about everything. Children are 10 upwards to 17. Two have autism and my eldest doesn't want her here at all. There is no consistency. Not even notice just telling me what weekend she'll be over. How can I move on with this hold on me. I know I need go just suck it up and go through with it. But I just feel so uncomfortable having her at my home. She won't take the girls as especially the younget two with autism aren't the easiest. I'm worried telling her no then she'll put a court application in or make her son do it