Ex took me to court and got approx 60/40 (60 in my favour). He sees her every other weekend and some days in between, she’s 5, and since he started seeing her on school nights he hasn’t done homework with her. He sends her to school with homework not done, doesn’t return uniforms etc. We have had to cut down piano lessons which I pay for to once a fortnight because he won’t let her have them on his weekend and teacher can’t do any other day so we can only do every other Saturday when she’s with me. I want to sign her up for dance and he doesn’t agree if it’s in his day (just because) even though I offer to do pick up and drop off and he isn’t seeing her anyway as she is at a play center until 6:30. I said instead of play center let me take her to dance and I will drop her off with you on your day after that. He says no. It’s not infringing on his time as I said she’s at a play center while he works. How do I deal with this it is just hindering my child’s opportunities and he does it to spite me. I feel so bad for my child.