Communication.

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My little girls dad has blocked me on mostly everything and we haven't spoke for days I reached out today to let him know his daughters not well and I think I'll need to take her to the doctors with no response. We've made no plans or arrangements on contact with her and he's not replying to any messages how do I go about this if he can't even communicate with me?

I think if he's blocked you then he has made his feelings pretty clear. What an absolute wanker. Don't inform him of anything. You just concentrate on looking after yourself and your daughter and forget about that manchild waste of space

Honestly you just get on with things and don’t bother contacting him.
If hr can’t be bothered engaging with you about contact then honestly it shows you how much he cares about his role as a father. Children need love and stability and if he can’t offer that then it’s a waste of time and effort trying to contact him.

Just get on with things. You don't need his input to care for your daughter.

You have done the responsible thing by informing him she is ill. If you expect nothing of your ex, you won't be disappointed.

He's a crap dad but you can't change that. Just get on with being a good mum x

Try sending him an invite using TalkingParents.com. It's a brilliant site for co-parenting. Nothing can be deleted and if you end up going through the courts, they can access & monitor the communications to make sure nobody is abusive! Saves dealing with phone calls & texts and not knowing what they're going to say etc

Why do you message him to say she’s ill? I never message my ex if the kids are ill? If it’s hospital situation fair enough like really serious but not just because they are ill? Anyway he has blocked you so obviously doesn’t want to know so best to seek support elsewhere unfortunately