My dad is a wheelchair user, recently he had a fall in his house and he wasn’t found for 3 days. He is in hospital at the moment he is fine not injured physically but it’s for observation and because of how long he was on the floor without water I’ve been up the hospital every single day since apart from one day but the trouble is my mum seems to be expecting me to go up every single day, obviously I’ve tried my best but I have 4 children and I’m really struggling taking them up every day.
My oldest has asd and can be difficult to keep her quiet on the ward which is obviously full of other patients. Not to mention 4 kids on and off buses in the rain. I spent both Saturday and Sunday up the hospital so barely got anything done I didn’t do anything with them all weekend which I feel bad about, the weather is also bad meaning I dragging 4 kids up in the rain. I’ve brought him shopping up and I’ve done what I can but daily? Am I expected to go every day? She messages me every day asking if I’m going