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Stressedmummaa · 04/11/2022 21:40

My partner has left me and now wants to take my son on his own.. court has been mentioned and I’m so hurt this has all happened…
The thought of him going with his dad on his own hurts my heart so much I feel he won’t look after him the way I do! And I just worry so much!!
I have done everything for our son since he was born and I feel he hasn’t been there for us! He hasn’t even bathed him!! As he has no time! Ive spent most of my time alone with our son as he’s always out either working or doing other things that he thinks are much more important!
I’ve breast fed and started combination feeding about 4 months in as he made me feel as though he couldn’t get involved due to me breast feeding.. even when I switched to doing combination feeds for him he still wouldn’t get up in the nights to help if I was tired!
My sons 5 months old (nearly 6 months) and my partners left me this week after saying I can not accept his daughter.. which is not true I have tried every way I can to be a supporting loving step mum to her.. and making her feel at home.. I can’t seem to do anything right by her.. she doesn’t see her mum so her and my now ex partner have a close relationship!
Hes not put the effort into spending time with our son as he does with his daughter but now wants to take him over night or off for the day.. I’m so worried as I haven’t been away from him!
If there’s any advise that anyone can give me.. I feel heartbroken by what’s happened and It just hurts me the idea of him being away from me…

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SpinningFloppa · 04/11/2022 22:08

He’s obviously not a bad dad if he has his daughter full time. It’s his son too you don’t own him sorry but threads like this just annoy me if he didn’t want to see him you would be moaning about that

Stressedmummaa · 04/11/2022 22:32

SpinningFloppa · 04/11/2022 22:08

He’s obviously not a bad dad if he has his daughter full time. It’s his son too you don’t own him sorry but threads like this just annoy me if he didn’t want to see him you would be moaning about that

Well I'm saying he hasn't bothered with him when he's had the chance the last 5 months or helped with anything.. thankyou for your reply really helped 👍

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