My Sons father has taken a step back from regular parenting and is only seeing my son once every 6-7weeks with very little contact inbetween by his own choice (that is a whole other story/issue.)
Currently my sons father is making last minute plans to see his son and I have said my son is free to see him but he is using my sons half sibling (who is 10 months old and lives full time with his dad) as an excuse as to why I should be dropping my son to him ( 45 min drive) and that if I don’t do it then it is Me stopping my son from having contact with his half sibling and that I don’t care about my son.
my stance on it is that it is not my responsibility to ensure the relationship between my son and his half sibling is maintained when his dad is fully capable of doing so but choses not to for his own selfish reasons and that I shouldn’t be made to feel guilt or like I am doing something wrong. I have previously taken my son to his house to see his brother as he hasn’t seen him for 7 weeks but it’s the depth his dad is taking it to to make me feel like it’s my fault or fully my responsibility and if I don’t take him to see him then it’s ME alone stopping them having a relationship.
am I crazy in thinking that? Has anyone been through something similar?