Cut a very long story short I will try and make this brief without doing around the world, my ex left me while pregnant and didn't want to be a dad and said some nasty stuff and I was in a bad place, cut that short I've now had the baby she is 7 months old he got back in contact with me when she was 3 months old due to me getting in contact with CM and in my thoughts that was the only reason he got in contact as it had taken him 3 months and a CM letter to contact me bare in mind he seen a pic of her on my whatapp and never got in contact, he asked could he see her after a lot of thought and stress I allowed him to see her and was willing to give him a chance after what he had done this was hard for me, he has seen her three times for a few hours with me there he has tried things with me but then he hasn't came through as a dad like any mother would expect from a man I noticed he wasn't asking about her he did for the first few days and then just stopped but would ask questions about me and my life and bothered about what I was up to, he was off work for 9 days last week and didn't once see her although he wanted to make it a regular thing when he was off work, let me add he does live long distance but other than that nothing should get in the way when he's off work, me a protective mum and being her only parent and bringing her up for 7 months on my own I keep changing my mind about weather I should let him see her or not at first I didn't think he was doing it for the right reasons and now I just haven't got a clue what his intentions are I am not having my daughter getting hurt like what he done to me he left me broken pregnant and was horrible but now I am thinking is this the right decision am I selfish am I being unrealistic am I a bad person am I nasty am I being dramatic or am I doing the right thing I don't know what to do it's such a hard thing for me as his intentions don't show me he wants to be a good dad to my daughter.