XP and I split New Year’s Eve - my decision, and should have been made years ago.
since then he has lived at his mums and has our youngest DC (7) over to stay a few nights a week.
oldest DC (11) won’t go and middle DC (9) has severe Autism and isn’t allowed in their house.
they live on the road behind and I often give him a lift to work so see him most days but he’s been pretty unhelpful with our disabled DC.
well yesterday he let me know he has met someone and they are looking for a house to move in together etc etc
and I’m honestly fuming, and I’m quite shocked at that tbh.
just feel like he behaved so shit and was so awful to me yet he gets to Swan off and enjoy his life and I’m stuck raising 3 kids basically alone.
DC2 will never live independently so sat here with that feeling that my life is over, and also that I presume at some point I’m going to have to send my kids to his with some new lady and I just hate it, what if they like her more than me or don’t want to come back here.
not even sure I have a question just needed to vent!