Hi, I have a extremely complicated situation that I thought I would just put on here to see if anyone has any knowledge of this area.
So I have a 7 year old son. We have no had contact with the father since my son was about 4/6 months old.
It was a abusive relationship, we had a court hearing for domestic abuse in which he was charged with and given community service and a fine. It was stated that he would have to go through the courts if he ever wanted to see my son, he has never done this so he has never seen my son since.
We also had a 4 year restraining order.
A few years later I saw his face on my Facebook in the police section of a article saying he had been charged with sexual abuse on minors and witness intimidation. I was not informed of any of this it just came up on my social media. I was shocked so my mum rang the court the day after the trial and explained that I have a child with this man and what were his charges. She said it was 10 counts of underage sexual activity and witness intimidation for this he got 5 years but only served 2.
He was released feb 2021 and because of what happened with me a few years prior I had a witness protect officer ring me and warn me he was being realised and that my restraining order had ran out.
Anyway, I have never wanted to get my son a passport because he is on the birth certificate and I haven't heard from him and just have enjoyed being able to get on with me and my sons life without the worry of him. So I thought by getting one it would put some sort of contact in place which is the last thing I want for me and my son given the charges he has received.
I am looking for advice because I would love to be able to get my son a passport but he is on the birth certificate and I know you usually need both parents to sign for this but he has not seen my son since he was 4/6 months and has had all these charges since then and we've had restraining orders... I'm so confused about the system and if it is the case where he has to be involved I will not get my son a passport. For his sake and mine we do not need him to be around. Thankyou and sorry for the long message!