I am very resentful of my ex-husband.
Here is the situation - he has the children only a few nights a month, does pay maintenance, but this is a relatively small sum and not at all in keeping with the lifestyle he has. I work full time and provide the children with everything they need.
I have brought up the children largely single handed.
Years tick by and he now likes to brag about the kid’s successes when they are there, when he has had no input. Any negative issues are my fault. He has always criticised me, and continues to do this to the children, the little he sees them. e.g kids haven't had the right dinner, haircut ect. I am content there is no basis for this criticism, past the normal ebb and flow of parenting.
The children don’t really see much wrong in him, as it’s what they have always known. I feel resentful of that, as I know they deserved much better.
Also, I have all the daily rigours to contend with while he looks like a fun dad the little, he sees the kids. When he turns up to events with the kids, he makes a big show - offering hollow words of advice to the kids.
The resentment of the situation is making me bitter. Any advice?