My son is 15 and daughter 11. I have been used to my son going out with his friends and not spending much time with me for a few years now, but now my daughter is wanting to do the same and I feel so lost and super lonely! My life has been child centred for nearly 15 years and now I have all this free time I've no idea what to do with it or feel guilty if I plan something! It's a strange feeling. They are growing up, I know that and if they are happy than do am I but how do I deal with feeling so lost?