Just looking for some advice and support.
So my sons dad and I separated before I knew I was pregnant (it was an abusive relationship and I have a 3 year restraining order on him).
He knew I was pregnant and made many noises that he wanted to be involved and make things right with us, etc but a month before my son was born he met someone and disappeared off the face of the earth over night. Fast forward to now, a year on, and I've still not heard a word from him or anyone on his side about the baby but him and his partner have now quietly bought a house a 5 min walk from mine and he has dramatically changed his appearance. Now his partner and him have no reason to buy in this (small) town, no work or family reasons. Even the police agree its very strange he would chose to buy here. As its a small town, I have seen him around but thankfully he's never approached me and seems to avoid places once he's seen me there.
My question is to anyone who's ex partner has never had anything to do with their baby and is not on the birth certificate.
Obviously Id rather he wasnt involved with the baby, he's not a good person, so I'm very concerned that he might one day try for some kind of access.. .so do you guys think it's likely he will try to make contact with my son in the near future? Keeping in mind he's never met this baby and never shown any interest in him at all. If this has happened to anyone here, what did you? What happened?
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Candycat1212 · 17/05/2022 17:02
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Wednesdayafternoon · 20/05/2022 10:28
If he's not on the birth certificate and you were never married what right does he have to anything?
So sorry about this OP. I can't imagine how stressful this must be!
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