I was married for 15 years, ex left me and had no contact with dd who is now 15.
I haven't dated or met anyone but I haven't been looking, to be frank I'm exhausted with work and supporting dd which is my pleasure (I have to add) since ex does not have contact or support dd at all since he left financially so it is a struggle.
I can't see a situation where I could trust a man to date or even have a casual relationship as I can't see why any man would want to be with me since my daughter comes first for me and I see men as selfish and have massive trust issues.
On the other hand I don't like being alone, I miss a relationship and having someone there . I sort of feel like I have ptsd from my marriage and I'm not happy being alone but I don't want my dd to have to deal with a stepdad.
There seem to be literally no men that would factor in a female partners kids in a relationship, I don't want or need financial support just someone who cares. I don't know why I'm posting but I'm so fed up and lonely as I don't feel I could trust again..
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creaturcomforts · 11/05/2022 22:45
jrc1071 · 02/07/2022 19:29
I’m a solo parent of a special needs child… The father moved to South America.
I live in a foreign country without family, I work more than full-time on top of caring for my son.
I don’t date. I can’t.
well admittedly part of it is I don’t give a flying you know what to even bother at my age…
But the other part is every budding relationship needs time to be alone together. And as a solo parent who has zero time off, responsible for every school holiday, I don’t have the time to nurture a relationship.
So dating is out of the question.
I have to say it’s hard… I spend every night feeling quite lonely, the weekends are hard. Yet this is how it’s going to be for at least another 8 to 10 years, so I’ve had to accept it
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