Finally starting to plan moving out properly and realising I’m financially screwed on my own.
I have a 7 month old and she is meant to be going to a childminder 3x a week when I return to work.. I’m reducing my hours from 5 days to 3 to allow me to care for DD the other two days.
I’m newly single - not my choice - and have been told that my ex will pay £250 a month for maintenance. Should childcare be coming out of this figure, or should he be making an additional payment at all?
The childcare is going to cost over £450, and I’m already losing £800 a month from going part time. I’m starting to panic how I’m going to be able to afford how to live 😪
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Child maintenance and childcare… should I be asking for more?
Mumandscrewed · 27/04/2022 08:22
Starseeking · 07/05/2022 08:56
He earns £60k working full-time as an employee, and was only paying me £300 maintenance a month for 2DC, so paying half the childcare bill was the least he could do!
Nursery for my second DC finishes soon, so I've taken him to CMS as he was planning to revert back to the £300 per month. They've said he has to pay £610 per month, so that's helpful going forward.
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