I have felt a incompatibility with my ex he had certain traits I don't understand or like that much. He is quite aggressive and inpatient , not in an extreme way, but enough to make me feel unhappy. For example, irritated if he has to repeat himself or if you don't understand what he's talking about straight away. If you ask him to do something, he won't do it because he doesn't like being told what to do. I think he was a difficult teen , and I can imagine it by the way he is now tbh. He is also a very vad listener, he often blanks what I say and talks about himself far too much, doesn't ask me questions. He's lazy and did very little in the house.
His mum and step dad ate really nice and normal people. He is nothing like them though, his step dad is much more passive and placid. His dad didn't see him that much growing up but he seems a lot more like him than his step dad, who raised him most of his life. So I guess I get the impression genetics play a big part in personality. A few men I know are carbon copies of the father.
I worry my son will of course be a lovely sweet boy, but he will be like his dad when he's older and I may not like him as much.
Do boys become like their dads?