Hi everyone
I would appreciate advice from anyone that has gone through a similar situation. My ex and I had been together for two years, he walked out on me during my pregnancy and left me for his ex they are now engaged and due to be married this year. He really hurt me and has caused nothing but stress during my pregnancy I hate him for what he’s done and I am having counselling. He sees our five month old son around once or twice a month for visits in Costa coffee. These are informal and often he gives little notice, I go due to breastfeeding and as much as I try and keep it business likes he comments that I’m beautiful, touches my legs etc says he misses me which really hurts and I’ve told him not too. He hasn’t paid any maintanence apart from £100 in cash and said I was threatening him by asking him, his new fiancée knows about the baby only as I told her but blames me and dosent want him to see either of us. I want my son to grow up to know his father but I don’t know what route to go down to make the arrangements more formal. I feel like I can’t escape him but want to put my emotions aside and do what’s best for my son. He hasn’t told his family and they live abroad as he’s from a community where he’d be disowned.