I posted this on the Covid board so sorry if you've seen it before but I am so annoyed!
So my ex-husband is due to collect the children tomorrow. He has told me that a family member has tested positive and they had contact on Sunday. She tested today so I am assuming that she took the test yesterday. Ex-husband has chosen to not have any dose of the vaccine. I have suggested that he perhaps collect the children on Sunday to give him a few days to see if any symptoms develop. He originally said he'd get a pcr test but when I asked for a copy of the results he said he won't be having one.
He is now accusing me of denying access to his children, saying I'm pulling the trigger as to when he's allowed to see them, saying I'm controlling him saying there's no trust because of me and he said that he's going to take them tomorrow, and he won't be flexible. End of.
Note he doesn't normally have them in a Friday, I agreed to swap for him. I am very concerned. The youngest child was in hospital last week and both of been very rundown recently, I also live with a clinically vulnerable person so it is natural that I am a bit cautious about this. All I suggested was that we talk about it and never once said he can't see them. I'm so unbelievably fed up of him gas lighting me and
Never considering when I act with caution. He hates the gouverment, doesn't believe in Covid or anything bla bla bla.
No point to this other then to rant :(