I have a live with order of our children. This has been in place for just over a year. Ex knows I have a partner and he asked my i Aug if I was moving as the kids have told him my partner is not local. I just said maybe in the future but I have no plans to move. I said if I did it would be no more that 30mins away and that he would be the first person I would discuss this with.
Fast forward to now and his behaviour has been horrible. I'll keep it bried; constant criticism of my parenting, allegations of neglect against me, emotional harm allegations against my family, labelling me as having childish, ridiculous and control freak behaviour. He told me I could have the kids a couple of hours on my birthday which he agreed in Aug and in Jan he turned up on the day demanding them when they knew we were having a birthday tea. He refused to move his car blocking my car in, told me I was going nowwhere then threatened to kick my door in and take the kids. I had to report this to the Police. The kids were there and upset.
Our children have a high level of care and all he has accused me of is completely imaginary.
I have my eldest repeating criticisms that he emails me such as I don't spend money on her, telling me I don't brush her hair and don't keep them clean etc.
He told me this week he has made an application to the court as he believes a house move in imminent and I am not allowing him as a father to have an input/alienating him. I may move much further in the future but have no plans. He's told me he will stop me moving if it's not in the kids best interest. I have no history of making rash decisions, I don't move around at all.
I feep suffocated by him. His behaviour has always been bad but for 8 months he acted amicably. He then resumed his relationship with his ex and he started at me again.
I feel like he has hidden agenda. What do I do in this situation? It feela like is is trying to control my life.